BirdDancer,

To answer some of your questions

Does your husband know that you are bisexual? Yes, he knows.

Does your bisexuality create a desire for something you aren't getting in your marriage? No, it really doesn't. I don't feel like I need to be with a woman. It's more like gender doesn't matter to me when it comes to relationships. I tend to like men better overall too because I get along with them better. I think back a few years ago when I started sleeping around I was just having problems with relationships in general... my marriage and my friends. It sort of seemed like everything was ok on the surface, but I was depressed and hiding it for a long time, mostly because I felt like no one wants to be around a depressed person.