when you talked to your daughter about cutting... what did you tell her?... did you tell her it was ok?... it's my guess it isn't... sometimes if we look at it from that perspective... we can see the truth... my t has asked me how i would feel if it was my grandbaby cutting?... how would i feel?... what would i tell her?...even if you don't intend to do serious damage... it can still happen... i know that when i am in that place of disassociation... after i start... i am not always able to stop... and it gets deep without my meaning too...lyn