She can’t be the “ perfect woman” for you if YOU think it’s okay to go have oral sex and I’m sorry I don’t believe it’s only oral given to you while your wearing a condom.
I do think this thread belongs under the sex forum due to content.
I’m probably seeing this more as bragging than actually wanting advice to be true to that “ perfect woman”
Man up and pick one woman or stay single and have sex with anyone that consents.