Last night my gf and I got into a argument.
She had work for 8 hours and gained a headache. While I was driving her back, we didnt talk except for one time and it was a very relaxing drive.

When we got home I started talking about the dogs and how they were acting really well and then talked about our interests. Then all of a sudden she came over and asked me, "do you find your voice annoying?". I paused and looked at her kind of confused. Then I said, "ummm.... I guess not?". Then she responded saying, "I was just wondering cause you talk alot! Like you talked the whole time we were driving and now your talking now.". I said, "oh, sorry. I guess I was just excited to see you I didnt notice. Also, I didnt talk the whole time we were driving cause it was super quiet in the car and you almost fell alseep". So I stopped talking, and then she pulled up a show on her phone a minute later... which made me really irritated cause she would rather listen to a show talking then interact eachother has to say?

Anyways, then I said that it's really strange that you would rather listen to a show then communicate with eachother. She explained that it was because she had a headache. And I said "oh, I didnt realize you had a headache. If I knew I wouldnt have talked to u at all. I wish you could have told me that you had a headache instead of saying that I like to listen to my own voice". She said that she will do that next time then started watching her show again.

Then it was time for bed and I asked her if she wanted to watch a show. She said yes, but she wanted to watch a show that was different from me. So I suggested that we could pick a show we both wanted to watch, she didnt say anything and kept watching her show. I got up and said, "I guess I'll just sleep in the other room". And she just said "ok" and continued watching her show.

I messaged her while I was in the other room saying, "you would rather watch ur show then pick a show we both want to watch? Did you notice that I was upset?" And she just responded with that she was tired and just wanted to go to bed.

So, I ended up sleep by myself and cried myself to sleep cause she doesnt seem to care that I was upset.

Now I just feel like I made a huge fuss over nothing... like maybe I just got upset over nothing and I shouldnt expect her to come comfort me when I feel like she doesnt care about us.

I guess I'm confused cause I would have gone right to her if she messaged me that she was upset, but she didnt for me... she just wanted to watch her show.