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Originally Posted by BBGR
Thank you for the answers
But honestly I would have wanted more complex advice for me and how to improve. I do admit is a problem with me, so some support and advice how to overcome this problem would have been more appreciated than "go tell her, you ll get dumped, you must be single" or "it's not fair" "you re a sex addict in denial" etc I though is a forum for sustain and improvement, somehow like visiting a therapist.
I don't know, but me if I know someone who's addicted to gambling, I don't tell him - "you don't deserve to have a family to spend all the money on gambling, you deserve to be isolated - no friends no nothing to borrow you money; you must get dumped by your wife for spending all the family money etc"
If a men with a problem that he admits goes to a therapist and receive advice to rest single forever and gets "suggestions" (by being reprimanded) that he is a totally jerk (even if it is true  ), I don't know really understand what's the purpose of such a specialist. |
not 100% happy with my partner I think is very probably - and normal in the mean time
Of course she is not perfect, neither our relationship
But I've never found in my whole life another woman that is as compatible with me as she is
And nobody is perfect, neither any relationship
I am almost sure if I would have another GF I would have done the same - probably not the first months in the "honeymoon" period, but certainly after a while
If I would blame my GF and search for another woman to have a relation with, I will most probably do that for whole my life, because I will never find someone "perfect" (it does not exists)
And if the problem is within me (which I think most probably is the case), no matter which partner I have, I will do the same
This is kinda easy for me to figure out, because my "addiction" and fantasy is to do sexual stuff with women that I don't know - and after I do sexual stuff with even a very attractive woman, I kinda lose interest quickly after