I hear you on that! Especially on how they hurt us and don't care how we live. That's helpful for me as a self conscious person to hear. For me, the word revenge doesn't sit well. I think its supposed to mean: don't try to inflict pain on someone who hurt you, especially if you can't get closure. Just live well, and see what you can do to heal. I do get something out of the saying though, its definitely not my kryptonite lol. Now I know what you're is!!! Muahaha. Kidding.