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Originally Posted by here today
Part of the process for me, too, was the activation of a revenge motivation I had never felt so strongly in my adult life. Nothing in my memory, even. For me, though, it wasn't so much that I didn't want the therapist to hate me -- I thought/felt I would be a "bad person" for acting on that motivation. I strongly considered it anyway, though.
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Yeah there is definitely a part of me that would also feel like a bad person if I did act on the revenge temptation. It doesn’t feel good to want to emotionally hurt another person just because they hurt you, but I can’t stop myself from thinking about it. But to be fair he probably wouldn’t care anyway.