I don’t know why you think that men want to have sex with many other women. Teens do. Not all grown men.

I know 100% that husband has zero interest in having sex with other women in his mind or in reality. Yes men can be monogamous just like women. It’s a huge stereotype that men want to screw all women. Some do. Some don’t. Same with women. Everyone is different.

If I thought my husband wants other women I’d never marry him. Your husband needs to stop saying and doing ridiculous things and needs to help you to be more secure, not less secure. I can’t imagine any context under which my husband told me what kind of women he prefers, I only know he prefers me, I have no clue what his general preference is. It’s an asinine and unnecessary thing to tell your wife. Not smart.

Stop blaming yourself