Today my gf told me that she did love her ex husband and that the only reason it ended was because he was abusive to her.

It caught me off guard cause she told me that she didnt like him at all and only married him because her parents told her to. She also told me that she never liked the sex from him and that she preferred at the time to be with a girl.

Now it's making me question everything she ever said to me... I dont care that she loved and wanted to marry him, what I care about is why lie? She told me he was abusive, but always told me that she didnt want to marry him... I'm so confused.