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Originally Posted by Discombobulated
Crazy Hitch I think how you feel about his betrayal of you is completely valid - those are your feelings.
Do you feel like you ought to forgive him? Are the feelings you have problematic in your life and to your wellbeing? If so then that is different.
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Today is what (would be) my wedding anniversary to my exhusband.
I’m ashamed to say ... I hate what he did ... but deep down I may just ... still love him. Never in the way as husband and wife but more as the person he is minus the affair(s). I disgusted in myself to even type it. It’s NEVER something I’d admit to my now partner. In April my new partner and I would have been together for 4 years. But deep do inside in the quietness of my mind I think I still struggle with the concept of 100% letting m ex go.
Some days I think I’m still grieving.