I remember after my divorce over twenty years ago i sobbed on my way out of the mall and not just quiet tears either, loud braying sobs. It's funny to think of it now, how no one said anything, no one would come near me. But of course it was very painful at the time. Mostly people don't ask me what's wrong, even if i cry in a support group. I guess i just have a bearing which says, "Leave me alone."