I don’t consider it forgiving or continually being aggravated by ignorant people. They do dumb things. I accept that. You can’t get in your car and take a drive without someone cutting you off or driving erratically. I just accept that it happened and continue on my journey. No point in getting angry. None at all. As for the the evils that people do to one another I won’t tell you not to be angry. They were done to me as well.. I don’t dwell on them. That doesn’t mean they don’t come up. They had a permanent effect on my life.
However I don’t forgive him, I don’t not forgive him. It’s just a non issue. Nothing to be done about it, just another thing to let go of.