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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Clearly your husband doesn't want you spanking anyone else but him and he must see it as a sexual thing and something you only are supposed to do with him.
In the old days, there was a saying "she wears the pants in the family" to describe dominating women who prefer men they can dominate and the men they marry prefer to be dominated and be the submissive partner.
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Yes, you're right, but that's not how this is supposed to work. As a Domme, its my prerogative to take on as many submissives as I like. A submissive cannot tell his/her Domme what they can and cannot do, but he doesn't agree with that. So I am no longer a Domme and it has left a giant hole in my life. Its not like I can just stop being dominant. It's not what I do, its who I am.