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Old Jan 05, 2020, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
Um, per your other post about your dad being crabby about your visiting back home on weekends, i would say this is not the best time to say goodbye to your ts.

I agree, they are not your friends, but they are not your dad either - i think they might want to be supportive thru this phase of your life. They are not personally affected by it as your father might feel he is, and that can be an advantage. They might have some ideas.
I'm not a therapy fan but I think this is something worth considering. There's an idea in a therapy book I read that said it's often helpful, important even -- though also very painful -- to separate from our parents. In this case, your parents have forced it -- but maybe the T's could be supportive and help you re-build a new life? It might mean a new kind of relationship with one or more of the T's but seems like that could be interesting, too? So not a FINAL session, exactly, but a moving on to something different?
Hugs from:
sinking
Thanks for this!
sinking, unaluna