I am not unhappy.. I am in fact happy. Isn’t that what matters? Who said I want to change him? I never said that. Yes we have fights. No it’s not perfect. Who said marriage is easy? No one. I do have trust issues, the main point of this thread. It is my responsibility. He hasn’t been perfect but he’s improving. That takes open communication and compromises, both of which we have and do.. All in all I’d say we have a great marriage. I’m the only one who can determine that. You don’t witness our relationship in person. We’re the most affectionate with each other every single day. Not all married couples are as close as we are.

And honestly? You’re wrong. He IS monogamous. I did not have to convince him to be otherwise. Why am I defending myself or him here? Where are you getting your false ideas and opinions from? Usually I respect your opinions but you’ve turned him into someone he’s just not. I’m not going to continue this conversation. It’s triggering me and it’s upsetting me.

I’m happy in my marriage ok? Please stop judging it.