For the record, MOST IF NOT ALL men use or have used porn. My husband used it while sleeping in separate bedrooms from his ex wife for two years. They not only didn't sleep together in the same room, but they had zero sex for two full years. He got used to it. He’s also used it when single as most if not ALL single men do. He even agrees with me that it can have a negative impact on intimacy within a relationship. He willingly gave it up and wanted to. He had no problem with doing so. I did not ask him to change who he fundamentally is. Not one bit. And he’s no porn addict. Never was. He was married for 14 years.

I hope this is now clear.