hello love,
i know everything seems so hard right now and im not here to say it will get better,
i was recently in a relation ship and he promised me forever.
he had a girl best friend and i thought she was very sweet and never gave it a second thought.
he broke up with me and said he was not ready for a relationship but then he dated her the day after.
all im trying to say is that its not bad to have trust issues necisarally.
it makes you aware and helps you to not get hurt again.
when you talk to your husband do not acuse him or confront him just talk to him about it. do not sound upset or sad.
for your husband i would sit him down and tell him this.
i have trust issues. i know its hard for you just as hard as it is for me. but its hard to change. it has nothing to do with you i am just hurt from the last people that hurt me. i want us to work through it and i need your help to do this.i want us to last so please help me get past this.
if he loves you as much as he claims he will be understanding and more than happy to help you.
overall just stay optimistic!
P.S the people that hurt you before are peices of **** dont think about them they dont madder.
i am alwasys here and if you have questions or need to vent please contact me via email it is in my bio on my page.