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Originally Posted by WovenGalaxy
I think you are putting yourself in a situation with someone who has hurt you a lot over the years. It does not sound like you two are a good match for friends.
You said you feel guilty cutting her out because your parents are friends. Work on this issue with your therapist. You shouldn't feel guilty. Though I understand why you would especially if you are drawn to certain patterns in relationships and have low self esteem.
You're allowed to distance yourself from this person.
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Thank you.
Yeah, I guess I felt guilty because one time she needed my help because her mum went on holiday. So I said I would. But at that time I wasnt mentally well. I was still dealing with sucidie thoughts and going to group therapy as well as individual therapy.
So I sent her a message and use the skills I learnt how to express yourself etc. She was cool with it. I did told her mum as well. Her mum never responded. Which I thought was very odd.
I recalled going to visit her with my partner because I experience social anxiety and don't have ftoends so I thought it be good opposite action. It went good but it was more like looking after the twins.
Then her mum message me out of no were saying thanks for visiting.
So I don't known if the false sense of guilt by the way the daughter my "Friend " and through mother treated me cause that.
The mother does a lot for through daughter and seems to be a very overbearing mother over my friend kids.
Also I don't have any friends so I guess that's why I hang with her. In thought it be good for me to socailse. But I guess its not of they are toxic.