(((Rapunzel))) I understand what you are saying and where you are coming from. I too believe there are many ways and many types of prayer.
Many times when we find ourselves in question, seeking answers, clarification, or even validation; the best thing i think we can do is ask God ourselves to light the way. I do believe it is up to us to call on Him for our needs. I also agree that is what He "wants" us to do. For me, prayer above all else, is what makes me feel connected in a personal way to Him.
I too, like you, find great comfort in scripture. I love it when I have spoken about a particular difficulty or life situation and someone can offer a scripture or quote that can enlighten me. It means a great deal to me.

blessings to all
recluse1