This is basically my response, too.

I am kind of a "once I truly love, I love forever" type of woman. I have dated guys that I quickly figured out weren't for me, but I never got to the point of actual love with them. I did have one deep love before my husband. He actually broke it off with me, after living together for two years across the country from our home states. I am happy we never married. He wasn't really looking for marriage, anyway. He has a child with a woman he never married. I now see that he was not as marvelous as I thought he was, originally. Sometimes love is blinding and first love is always sad to see end. Nevertheless, I still have fond thoughts of him. I guess I always will. I don't tend to swing from one extreme to another, in terms of my feelings towards people. I usually stay in the middle or just off middle, with just some exceptions, usually in the adoration direction.