Of course having friends and activities are important no one should become a hermit but I also think it’s a good idea to learn to be content with yourself, be alone with yourself.
I’m not sure of your future plans but many people find a mate, have children, settle into a typical family with all the responsibilities it brings... trust me then you’d often offer up a limb for one hour of peace and quiet to do what you want.
You’ll be at work all day and sure somedays it would be great to meet up with friends for dinner .... but there’s also time when you just want to grab take out , go home and I dunno play video games or just get lost in TV or binge a show you like.
Everything needs to be balanced as much as possible.
I think what your generation has that of course mine didnt is social media, I’m 52... I lost contact with most people I went to school with. You will be able to maintain relationships with people while meeting new people when your off in the world starting your adult life.
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