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Originally Posted by Werewoman
Yes, you're right, but that's not how this is supposed to work. As a Domme, its my prerogative to take on as many submissives as I like. A submissive cannot tell his/her Domme what they can and cannot do, but he doesn't agree with that. So I am no longer a Domme and it has left a giant hole in my life. Its not like I can just stop being dominant. It's not what I do, its who I am.
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Werewoman, I don't know anything about the lifestyle of dommes and subs, so I am curious...
What were the terms of the marriage since your husband is a sub? Was it agreed upon initially that you could have as many subs as you wanted within the marriage, and then he changed his mind due to jealousies? Was it ever discussed and hashed out how the domme/sub dynamic would function within a marriage? What was your understanding of how the marriage would function?
If it was never discussed, did you assume that you could do as you please? And did your husband assume that you would be devoted in every way only to him?
I can understand you now feeling like a huge hole is missing in your life because a domme is who you are. I am just trying to get to the root of the matter by understanding the dynamics and agreements or assumptions made within your marriage.
And if it was never discussed, maybe now is a good time to have that discussion about what each of your understanding was and is within the domme/sub relationship dynamic?