Hi Sabrina, I can relate to you on this subject, although unfortunately I do not have any advice on what to do.

I have been on antidepressants for the last 3 years and I do not have a sex drive now because of it. The strain on my relationship has been heavy.

We both agree that the tablets help me so much in other ways that we have had to be 'creative' around sex - its not an option for me to come off them.

The guilt - tell me about it !!! Its not fair is it - not only is the illness awful, but something that could bring a bit of happiness gets shut off too .

I feel for you - only you can weigh things up together, but, for me losing sex drive is the lesser of 2 evils - its better than being suicidal.

I wish you both luck in whatever you do........take care, Poppet