Have Hope, I am not minimizing anything, I have admitted I have a problem that I want to overcome.

I do not want the others to tell me "it's not bad", but only seeking for more understanding of this problem/addiction, and more advices and positive vibe on how can I overcome my problem and have a normal fulfilling life with my partner.

I searched on internet "sex addiction forum" to receive support and advices on how to overcome my problem from people that are aware of this condition and know what does it means.

This forum was one of the first in the research, but sadly I see the members here are not specialized therapists, but normal people that faces problems like me.

Just that I don't really see members here that shares the same addiction as me or have done extensive research concerning this problem.

That's why, even tho I thank you for your opinions and I have read them all (I have gotten also a couple of good advices from some users), I will stop this conversation and try to go on other forums/website where this problem is more made aware/the members are more informed about the topic.

It's like me, without really knowing about problems like adhd, depression, bipolar etc I start making comments on forums like "why you ignoring your partners every 2 weeks?! do you know how difficult is for your partner to be ignored all the time like this? you are not emotionally available to your partner, you should have told him you have this before getting married. that's not normal, you should see a therapist" = no real advice, only putting blame, without taking in consideration that the person with the problem admits it, and for sure does not want to have it

I wish you all the best. I admit I have a problem, I want to stop it and I will go on dedicated websites/support groups for sex addiction.