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Old Jan 07, 2020, 06:12 PM
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I need to clarify that over this time, her behaviour progressively got worse. She was verbally aggressive at first, then it escalated to verbal abuse - accusing me of not loving her enough to do certain things, cursing about how much she hated me crying, calling me weak, getting in my face, breaking things, throwing things at me, stopping me from leaving the room, etc. She would always somehow turn the blame around on me for her behaviour and I always took it.
This is what your father did with you too. He just used the belt, she yells, and turns the blame on you constantly.

Can you see how they are similar always needing YOU to perform for them?
Thanks for this!
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