Trisha
I've heard good and bad about McGregor. What does she say?
I've wondered if my accepting attitude contributed to my kids selfishness.
I think they made have been the type of new souls in need of a strong hand.
I do know that loving and understanding is not wrong. It might have been worse had they not had the love that we gave them.

I was not a very good father. I was a wonderful mother. I was a one woman band. Due to my abusive childhood I had no extended family support. Some children might be appreciative of a mother who was so alone but loved and provided so much more than she ever received. Mine are not.