We are both now monogamous and have been for 5 months. What happened before then I couldn’t care. However, I expected her to be truthful. Not lie.

In regards to a girl kissing her at the club since we’ve been exclusive. She said she pulled away and did not welcome it. However, she did not tell me right away. Which is a sign of guilt. So there must have been some inviting behaviours.

My goals in a relationship
Healthy with good communication
Family
Monogamous
Trust, honestly, loyalty. All the basics that make it work.