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Old Jan 09, 2020, 12:30 PM
ArtleyWilkins ArtleyWilkins is offline
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Originally Posted by Forgetmenot07 View Post
I am surprised that most don't think that there is anything your Ts want to know. Do you think they are immune to the: 'do you like me?' questions or 'do you think I am smart?' maybe that's my very immature way of thinking.
I think mine would like to know what I want I actually want from him.
Yeah, I honestly don't think they would have cared if I thought they were smart, and it was obvious that I like them so why ask the question. They WERE smart--truly pretty brilliant individuals. I am smart and have no reason to ask other people if they think I am smart. Just seems like an odd question.

They knew what I wanted from them because I told them that. Do you not tell you therapist what you believe you need from them? How does therapy work if you don't do that?