That sounds healthy and achievable. You come across really nice on here - I think lots of people would like you in their lives.
Maybe this will be a numbers game a bit like dating? Like sifting through until you find people who are a good fit for you?
I know it isn't as easy said as done when we get older. If you keep open and meeting different people I think that's the best thing. It's what I have done in the past anyhow when looking for friends.