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Paper Roses
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Default Jan 11, 2020 at 07:08 PM
 
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Thanks.
I would love to think my situation may change. It has changed before. We try and then I do something unforgivable.

Last time I called him from the hospital and asked why he hadn’t called to see if I was ok for 2 days. I called him the night I was admitted. He said he thought I must have gone home. Apparently I was supposed to call him to say I was still in the hospital.

I guess my secretary should have called his secretary to update him on his mother’s condition. He was angry that I had not called him and hung up. He did not ask how I was doing.

My son is very successful. A CEO. I guess I just don’t know the rules.

We had been working on our relationship before that and he had said he wanted to be there for me more. He tends to be very busy.

I don’t know. Maybe expecting him to call me when I’m on deaths door is too much. ?

BTW. So so glad you have your children in your life. I disagree with your pdoc. It’s not normal for children who are adults to not care about their mother. It’s very unusual.

I am open to this to change.

Thanks again.

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