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Originally Posted by feileacan
What do you mean by co-dependency attachment? What does your T say when you ask them the same question you asked here? How do they propose you to overcome it?
What does the therapist mean by 'feeding the dependency'? Are they currently feeding the dependency? Why does this therapy end in March and why are you pushed to every two weeks?
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I guess my therapist mean by me going to them to slove my problems instead of me to figuring out myself. Use the skills I know? I haven't asked them that question to be honsent. But it be a good question to ask.
Well they have try to reduce the dependency by not calling them when I'm distressed.
Well it ends in March because I go to public mental health system. In my country the goverment pays the therapist working at the public mental health system so I get therapy for free.
From what my therapist has told me. The system pressures the therapist to get rid of clients because there is this waiting list for other people that need therapy.
She said also she has 16 clients and if she takes more people in and keep her old clients it would get too much for the therapist too.
That's why. They only keep people in whe you are really bad. They dont keep you once you are all better, unfortunately.
So the reduce 2 weeks is to slowly to wee off from them.
I am looking for another councilor cause they reckon I dont need a psychologist at the stage I am in.
But yeah just stressful, overwhelming and anxiety provoking.