This is the first time I share openly about this matter with someone. I commented a little details with a psychologist some years ago and I got shocked when I heard from her that it was emotional abuse.
I always knew something wasn’t ok and we even went to couple therapy but he didn’t do the work proposed by the therapist.
I admit that most of the time I put the blamed more onto myself because of my psychological issues and because I’m very sensitive and not a very easy going person. So, somehow I put this topic apart and didn’t feel strong to face to it. Now, I feel stronger and I wouldn’t like to worry anyone else because I have social support from my family. I’m not alone but still I haven’t taken a decision or talked to anybody around me about this topic. I don’t want to worry or get anybody else involve since I’m not physically afraid. He’s not physically abuser, at least with me. He has broken some stuff and I hate it. He’s mainly emotional controlling. So, I’m the one who has to give the steps. I think I’m capable of doing it.