Her hands. I will also have great cravings for her when I am menstruating. I also like it when she swears and uses phrases which I don't understand (we are not from the same country). If I am drunk (which is frequently) kissing her feels possible, even reasonable. I am also holding a fair amount of disgust for her and that is often activated when we are together. I have sexual thoughts about her when I am not with her, almost never in session.