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Well, here is is.. 3:40 PM on a Sunday and he facebooks me that he wants to come over. Not only that he wants to come over on his motorbike. Unfortunately it is like 70 here today. I told him no i was going out. And then I left just in case he came over.
What am I going to do? Obviously he is making plans this way. I have lived here for 5 years and in that time he has visited 3 times. ALL because HE wanted something. He obviously wants something. He won't leave a phone message so he wants to talk with me. I only take solace in that he wants to come over on the motorbike (and not his regular car which would contain all his stuff).
When he got married it never occurred to me that he would want to come back and live with me. For most of his life he has been working but in the last few months he lost his job, can't get another one (due to his age) and has almost zero money. He gets some disability but it absolutely isn't enough to live on. Up until a few years ago I was living in a one bedroom apartment that wouldn't allow him to live the lifestyle to which likes. Foolish me I then moved into a three floor townhouse (one reason for doing so in case I had to get a roommate).
I find it hard to believe he would be divorcing at this particular point in time because his son is only 13 and I believe his wife's mom will not really allow her to get a divorce while she is alive. But he clearly wants to talk with me without his wife or son so... that is suspicious.
I hope I am only overreacting and he just wanted to come over because he wanted to ride his bike someplace.
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