Meeting with my lawyers tomorrow morning. I plan on asking if there's any specific things he did that we can use as an argument to the judge to not have to give him half of everything - value of house, savings, checking, my retirement accounts. This line of inquiry may lead to places I don't really want to revisit outside of my therapist's office. I've considered giving them a copy of my victim's impact statement as a starting point, but I'm not sure. I tried to read it the other day and I just couldn't do it. I feel ashamed of it right now.