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I think, what I really need or want is a strong connection with someone. When I have a person like that in my life this eases, I know it's a coping mechanism. It's just hard right now
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Actually, this is normal and there are so many ways this creative desire comes out. Children often have an imaginary friend or playmate and often as a child grows and experiences other children and even adults, they try to resolve the things they don't like by playing it out in their mind with the imaginary comforting made up persona.
Actually SoSorry, many of the individuals that write and come up with different characters in their books/novels are for the most part sharing their ideas about how they interpret different challenges and people during their childhood and lives. What would a perfect heroine be like, how would she react to different challenges, what would she look like. How can we love what she is even. The mind is pretty amazing in that it can be so incredibly creative. We get to see this all the time in so many books, movies, plays, musicals.
When people began creating movies, they began putting together characters that actually had quite an impact on humanity. And while writing and acting out stories always had an impact, on film people got to see actual characters where they could observe so many emotions and facial expressions and what someone looked like, dressed like, how they lived.
One of the big classics is the movie "Gone with the Wind". Just recently I watched a documentary about all the effort that went into making that movie. After seeing all that went into the final product I have so much more respect for that movie and the individuals that put so much into creating it and many things done at that time could not be done today either. The individuals that put that movie together were constantly challenged with writing things out and then putting it together into scenes. At different points there were arguments and breakdowns and it's amazing that movie ever got finished. There was no Tara in real life either, but you would never know that by watching the movie. It's absolutely incredible how much creativity went into that movie. It's a tribute to how much a mind can create, especially without all the technology that exists today. Most of the people involved with that movie are gone, but all the work and time these individuals put into that movie continues to be enjoyed and appreciated.
I think about how, if I was able to be exposed to that world, I may very well have chosen to be part of creating a piece of work like that on some level. It's not bad to daydream, yet, what a person should be exposed to is how people take their day dreams and actually create. While you can never create an actual woman like what you imagine, you can most definitely create her essence in a story. This can serve to teach so many women what is possible, an inspiration. The creative mind within a person can most definitely INSPIRE.