@BethRags @StreetcarBlanche

My story is similar to yours. I learned codependent behaviors at a young age in an attempt to make myself lovable and in an attempt to make our house a happy home. The control and people pleasing started early for me. I know this is the reason my friendships are like this. What I can’t figure out it why I know this yet I still fall into the pattern. I’m learning to see what I do early on though and step back. But still, I don’t know why I am not just more careful to begin with.