Razzleberry, I'm really worried by all this. Why has he suddenly contacted you after all this time? And I personally don't think you should go back to him no matter how desperate you are for help...he creeped you out bad yeah? And it sounded to me like his behaviour was inappropriate and other women shouldn't be subjected to the same thing. It's not like you sent off that complaint in the heat of the moment...you took the time first to ask for peoples opinions here. Why the sudden change of heart? Can you explain coz I GENUINELY am worried about you here?