This was negative and unsupportive:

“sometimes the strong stay on and make changes. it takes no guts to leave and bail. it takes strength to stay and make changes in the environment.”

So you’re saying here that I have no guts? That I am weak because I choose to leave? That I’m not strong becauSe I choose to give up on a toxic work environment? That’s a most disempowering statement.

Again if I had wanted opinions I would have asked.

And again perhaps think about what the guidelines are around support and what they mean. Your posts are almost always triggering.