I agree with that and we havent discussed us in general but it is a goal of hers to be married again and she says she doesnt even know if she wants to again.
I am just trying to not waste my time only to get way down the road ans she still feels the same.
Now it is the big elephant in the room us questioning we dont know if we are right for one another. Its created this weight on us right now and taking a step back feels like the beginning of dating with no spark because of it.
I have a gut feeling that her saying I dont think I want to be married one day because she cant see it with me.
I have said the same in the past and didnt even know why,
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Originally Posted by Have Hope
My advice would be to take it SLOW. It's only been 2.5 months. Give it far more time together before you seriously start talking about marriage. She may just be scared because of past experiences. Give it more time... don't talk about marriage now. Enjoy your time together and allow it to grow naturally.
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