My husband and I moved to arizona from Seattle with the help of my parents. We're staying with them under their good grace, but here are the problems.

He is complaining almost nonstop about noise and my family, saying it's worse than the problems in Seattle and wants to go back once he saved up.

I have no intention of going back, especially because it's been so bad for us in Seattle and there's nothing there for us.

I'm going to get into pharmacy career soon hopefully, and I'm seeing the prices for house and car and the wage, which I hope I can make it work.

He had always been complaining. His own apartment was too noisy, my apartment was too noisy and more. Im fed up and I'm done.

I've tried so hard for so many years and nothing is ever good enough.

To add insult to injury, he claim that my family and I "abducted" him, giving him no say in the move. He had his say, but his ideas were to stay in Seattle, in the same stressful and dangerous situation.

Let's not also forget that he makes it all about him, considers none of my feelings or efforts, always treats me like I'm the bad guy. He is also a walking talking contradiction! "I don't want absolute quietness!" "It's too noisy!" "It's always about you" "Oh I am not being heard!" And so on.

I've been burnt out and I couldn't do anything to save money or get anywhere. Im at my breaking point and I wouldn't be sad if we're divorced.

I should never met him, or gone to Seattle.