At 2.5 months it should still be that great honeymoon phase of trying to see each other as often as possible.

It’s very likely she might have gotten scared off a bit if she felt you were already on to thoughts of long term and possibly marriage.

I know after my divorce from my first husband , I didn’t date for a couple years at least , I had a child to raise and a career.

When I did start dating I was very leery of anyone who starting even in passing talk about “ us” having a future in the first 4-6 months at least.... I even had a few telling me they loved me after a couple months Ack !!!! For me ? Way too soon , my first husband cheated , I had lots of trust issues

My advice have a conversation about how your feeling and willing to back off talking long term if she wants more no pressure dating.