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Originally Posted by jcl76
I agree with that and we havent discussed us in general but it is a goal of hers to be married again and she says she doesnt even know if she wants to again.
I am just trying to not waste my time only to get way down the road ans she still feels the same.
Now it is the big elephant in the room us questioning we dont know if we are right for one another. Its created this weight on us right now and taking a step back feels like the beginning of dating with no spark because of it.
I have a gut feeling that her saying I dont think I want to be married one day because she cant see it with me.
I have said the same in the past and didnt even know why,
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Yeah, I hear you. That's a really tough position to be in. I brought up commitment once 2 months into dating a guy, to find out he didn't want to ever commit. He had just gone through a rough divorce. We broke up.
I don't know what to advise. Basically, marriage as a goal or future desire was brought up, and it caused things to cool down -- where do you go from there? Back off? Date other people?
Wish I had some advice for you. It's tough. Sorry. Maybe others will have some good words of wisdom for you.