I Agree with the Others. Just give it time. She'll get to Know You better and she'll decide by Herself whether She wants to commit or not. I understand Your Fear of "Wasting Time", but I don't think you're Wasting it. Every Relationship and Experience is a Chance to Grow! Give it Time, at least a Year or so, and See How it goes from there. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @jcl76, Your Family, Your Friends and ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!