I never brought up marriage in the sense of us. The topic came up and I merely stated yes it is my goal to be married one day. She is just all over the map.
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Originally Posted by ~Christina
At 2.5 months it should still be that great honeymoon phase of trying to see each other as often as possible.
It’s very likely she might have gotten scared off a bit if she felt you were already on to thoughts of long term and possibly marriage.
I know after my divorce from my first husband , I didn’t date for a couple years at least , I had a child to raise and a career.
When I did start dating I was very leery of anyone who starting even in passing talk about “ us” having a future in the first 4-6 months at least.... I even had a few telling me they loved me after a couple months Ack !!!! For me ? Way too soon , my first husband cheated , I had lots of trust issues
My advice have a conversation about how your feeling and willing to back off talking long term if she wants more no pressure dating.
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