I am so thankful I allowed the two of you to talk back in the beginning. I was surprised yesterday when EMDR T told me that you told her in the beginning how you definitely played a mother figure role in my life. While I always thought of it as a caring older female relative (like an aunt) I always feared you didnt feel the same way. I know we had a unique relationship but was always afraid to say the important role you played in my life out of fear of rejection. To hear you knew and on some level felt the same way and you expressed that to somebody else really warned my heart. I am thankful it was not all in my head.

Course in true therapy fashion when I mentioned that you had never mentioned anything like that to me, EMDR T and I got into a discussion of what to tell and then why or why not.