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Jan 15, 2020, 06:08 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by Crook32
So they have flex time but it is not as liberal as what I currently have. Right now her office is 12 minutes but it will be 33 minutes from the new place. I am just pissed off because she knew I was panicking about this and she assured me it would be ok and we would work it out. She knows I don’t want to change therapists. I always knew I couldn’t keep up twice a week but every other weeks seems too long. I guess I will start looking. Closer to the new office. I am really crushed and pissed at the same time. I have so many decisions to make that I don’t have time to add a T search to the mix.
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Frankly, I'd be upset, too, if my therapist assured me that "things would be okay" then kinda left me. Maybe she believes that offering you the opportunity to see the other T means that things are okay. But then, I know people who won't see a therapist because of the unusual nature of the therapist-client relationship. Yes, they're doing a job - but it's not *just* a job.
That said, you're in the situation already, so something will work, one way or another. I do believe that the path will become more clear to you once you're in a kinder work place. Take it step by step.
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