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Old Jan 16, 2020, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Crook32 View Post
The time line is long and winding but about 2 years ago is when I started job hunting so we knew things would have to change. On top of all this the HR guy practically told me to renegotiate the offer. I feel weird doing that. I might try to get more vacation since I am losing about 12 days. Trying to figure out insurance is tough. Never had a choice before.


I hope you can get things sorted out. Change is never easy. I briefly left Tennessee and spent 8 months in Florida. I found a good Pdoc but never a T, we moved back home and I couldn’t get back in with my T of 8 years, so I tried out this other guy, it was hell, I was furious I had to try and explain my life... I saw him about 6-7 times was off the wall suicidal out of frustration and ptsd wound up in the hospital and my GP wound up getting me back with my original T ( it’s a company across a Tennessee and into Kentucky)

Anyway long story short , I could no longer see my T weekly because of his schedule in a month or 2 he had a appt opening and I was able too , then my finances hit the fan so I had to cut back to bi weekly. It was really tough .. but for me ? Mentally ? I just can’t break in a new T .... I’ll drop out when my T retires.

Request more vacation days or whatever you can. Obviously they can tell your dedicated you were at your old job forever. That’s a good quality.

Good luck
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