Its worse when they become manipulative, so let them be evil. Go into one of movies Shawshank Redemption treat it like prison time when it isn't to the prison folks like in the movie their time together you have to understand the inner world to know what actually is the issue here. Encourage thrill seeking behavior it is not that hard. Don't let anybody tell you how to relate it is it legal do so, if it isn't if you don't get caught then it is fine to do....