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salukigirl said:
i dont think you should expect your husband to put your own needs over his own.
altruistic relationships work the best and you expecting him to put his needs after yours is not altruistic. its the opposite.

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I would have to say that marriages are seen in two ways these days........ some put their spouses needs over their own at times (and) some are selfish and do as they please - but it is never one size fits all.